Day 20 of 30

Dharma: Public or Personal

ધર્મ: જાહેર ચર્ચા કે વ્યક્તિગત વિચાર

Is Dharma a public debate or a private contemplation?

June 5, 2026

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Dharma: Public Debate or a Private Ideal?

The Two Sides of the Street

"You should have seen the Ganpati decorations in our lane! The lighting was spectacular. Every night, a different celebrity performed live. Different snacks every day. A special seating area for the mandal organizers. And those late nights... you know what I mean!"

"Oh, the Ganpati immersion procession was something different! We danced so much. So many firecrackers! Abir-gulal flying everywhere. And the DJ music! My Dharma was observed and I had a great time. Now I'm just waiting for Navratri."

"Forget it. I got a terrible headache. The noise was unbearable. The power went out, so it was sweltering, and the lift stopped working — I had to climb eleven flights of stairs. In this electricity shortage, they steal power for all those decorations. The sound pollution, the air pollution, the Cultural pollution — is this Dharma? Nobody thinks about the sick, the elderly, or students preparing for exams."

I overheard both sides of this argument while walking through a Ganpati visarjan procession. It raises a question worth pondering: is Dharma merely about such celebrations and spectacles?

What Is Dharma, Really?

The Yajur Veda declares:

धर्मो विश्वस्य जगतः प्रतिष्ठा।

Dharma is the foundation upon which the entire world rests.

The word "Dharma" comes from the Sanskrit root dhri, which means to uphold, to sustain. "That which sustains all of creations — both the inert and the conscious — is Dharma." To flow is the Dharma of a river. Heat and light are the Dharma of fire. In the same way, the principles by which humanity is preserved — that is Dharma.

यतोऽभ्युदय निःश्रेयस सिद्धिः स धर्मः।

That by which one attains progress in this world and well-being even after death — is Dharma. Thus Dharma concerns itself not only with this life, but with what lies beyond.

धर्मो रक्षति रक्षितः

Dharma protects those who protect it. To protect Dharma means to give it a place in your life, to shape your way of living in accordance with it. If a person protects Dharma in this way, then Dharma protects that person in return. But what it truly means to protect Dharma — that is worth reflecting upon.

The Common Ground of All Faiths

The foundational principles of the world's various Dharmas are remarkably similar. No Dharma teaches to: steal, commit violence, speak falsehood. And to quarrel, bicker, or argue about which Dharma is the greatest — that serves no one.

"Man is a social animal." A human being is part of society, and it is natural and necessary to practice Dharma collectively. We gather for communal Darshan, Puja, Aarti, and Prasad at temples. We celebrate religious festivals together. We undertake Yatra and Tirthatan. At the Kumbh Mela, ideas are exchanged on a vast collective scale. It was through precisely this process of exchange that Swami Vivekananda carried the flag of Bharatiya Dharma to distant lands.

Dialogue within Dharma is essential — but fanaticism is not. Fruitless debates and empty arguments serve no purpose.

The Four Dimensions of Dharma

Every Dharma has four facets:

1. The Ethical Dimension: Satya (truth), Ahimsa (non-violence), Asteya (non-stealing), Aparigraha (non-possessiveness), Shauch (purity), Santosh (contentment), Tapa (austerity) — the Yamas and Niyamas, and the broader consideration of social and moral order.

2. Kriyakand (Ritual Practices): The outward observances of Dharma — Yajna, Puja, Paath, Vrat, Upvas, methods of Upasana, and the celebration of sacred occasions.

3. Darshan (Philosophy): The contemplation of the relationship between the Jiva (soul), Jagat (world), and Jagadish (the Lord).

4. Adhyatma (Spirituality): This is the very soul of Dharma, its central essence. Adhyatma is the ripened fruit of Dharma. It shows the Atma the path of upward movement — toward the highest state, toward Moksha. Dharma can lead a person all the way to Samadhi.

Maharshi Patanjali articulates this same truth through the Ashtanga Yoga (Eightfold path of Yoga). This inner journey must ultimately be undertaken by the individual alone. In that sense, Dharma is deeply personal. When a seed of reflection sprouts within a person, and that reflection is nurtured through contemplation, right action becomes possible.

The Inner and the Outer

Dharma lays out many paths — Mantra Japa, Jnana, Karma, Bhakti, Yoga, and more. Each person may choose a Sadhana suited to their own nature, inclination, temperament, capacity, and understanding. Dharma gives us the principle of Karma, the law of Rita (cosmic order), the concept of Avatars, the doctrine of rebirth, and the immortality of the Atma. Through these, a person receives guidance for right action. Texts like the Bhagvad Gita, the Ramayan, and the Mahabharat teach us how to live. The individual must internalize these qualities and then live them out within family and society.

According to the Manusmriti, 1. Shruti (revelation), 2. Smriti (tradition), 3. Sadachar (righteous conduct), and 4. Atma-Kalyan (the soul's well-being) — these four are the marks of Dharma. Dharma thus emphasizes righteous conduct in the social context while also showing the individual the path to spiritual liberation.

The four great Purusharthas (aims of life) are: Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha.

Food, sleep, fear, and reproduction — these are common to both humans and animals. But it is Dharma alone that distinguishes the human being. Without Dharma, a person is no different from an animal. It is Dharma that makes a human truly human. The human being possesses Buddhi (discerning intelligence). Moksha is possible only in human life. Therefore, the practice of Dharma is essential.

The Varna and Ashram systems outlined by Dharma serve as guiding lights for individual and social life. Bharatiya Sanskriti has structured four Ashrams around the four Purusharthas:

  1. Brahmachari — conquers desire, becomes master of the senses: Dharma-oriented
  2. Grihastha — conquers anger, becomes compassionate: Artha and Kama-oriented
  3. Vanaprasthi — conquers greed, becomes renunciant: Moksha-oriented (first half)
  4. Sannyasi — conquers attachment, becomes unattached: Moksha-oriented (second half)

So Dharma is for Public Discussion or a Private Matter?

Is public discourse on Dharma welcome? The answer is yes — if it fosters social stability, peace, communal harmony, and a spirit of brotherhood.

And the answer is no — if it is merely contentious argument, empty rhetoric, or fuel for social discord and hostility.

The second part of the title asks: is Dharma a personal matter? The answer is both yes and no. Reflection is certainly necessary. But reflection alone is not enough. The insights of Dharma must not only develop the individual — they must also be reflected in one's daily conduct and in one's dealings with others. Recitation without practice is hollow. And we must take care that our own practice of Dharma does not become a burden upon others.

In this Adhik Maas, let us pray that Prabhu grants us the understanding of true Dharma.

A Reflection for Today

We live in a time when Dharma is performed loudly — livestreamed Aartis, Instagram-worthy Puja setups, public declarations of piety measured in likes and shares. The story's opening argument between two neighbors, one celebrating the spectacle and the other suffering under its noise, is not merely about Ganpati processions. It is a mirror held up to our age, where the outward Kriyakand of Dharma has grown enormous while the inward Adhyatma — the soul of Dharma, as the text calls it — has grown quiet. The rishis who articulated the four dimensions of Dharma understood that the ethical, the ritual, the philosophical, and the spiritual must move together, like four wheels of a single chariot. When ritual races ahead and reflection falls behind, we get spectacle without substance — and our neighbor's peace becomes the cost of our display. In your own practice, which of those four wheels turns most freely, and which has gone still?

Today’s Mantra for Japa

Om Namo Bhagavate Vasudevaya

Recite 11 times

For Family Discussion

  • 1Do you think Dharma should be discussed publicly or practised privately?
  • 2When has a quiet personal choice mattered more than a loud public statement?

Something to Sit With This Evening

Dharma is not won in arguments. It is lived in choices no one else sees.

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From Adhik Mas Nu Nitya Chintan by Hitendra Gandhi & Jyotsna Shah. About the authors