Day 22 of 30

Noise or Birdsong in Hard Times?

કપરા કાળમાં કકળાટ કે કલરવ?

Choosing grace over complaint in difficult times

June 7, 2026

Listen in Gujarati

ગુજરાતીમાં સાંભળો
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The years 2020 and 2021 were extraordinarily difficult for the entire world, on account of the COVID-19 pandemic. What the earlier five or seven generations had never seen or known, everyone experienced firsthand. We forgot some old things. We learned some new ones. Inwardly and outwardly, we were all changed — at least a little.

In such times of trial, what attitude should one adopt? What way of living? Should we give in to complaint and lamentation — shouting, wailing, "hai hai" — or should we, without losing our inner peace, try to remain as steady as possible amid whatever circumstances have come?

A poet has said it beautifully:

कुछ लोग ऐसे होते हैं, जो सदा अपने गमों के गीत गाते हैं दिवाली हो के होली हो सदा मातम मनाते हैं...... लेकिन दुनिया तो झूमती है उनकी रागिनी पे हरदम, जो जलती चिता पर बैठकर बीना बजाते हैं.....

Some people are forever singing songs of their sorrows — whether it is Diwali or Holi, they are always in mourning. But the world dances to the melody of those who sit upon a burning pyre and still play the veena...

The Song in the Lifeboat

When a terrible storm at sea threatens to sink the ship, when death stares you in the face, there is nothing to do but leap into that small lifeboat and try to save your life. Yet even in such moments, there are rare souls who sing songs of faith, of hope, of life. Those who possess the courage to "romance with life even in a lifeboat" — they deserve our deepest respect. But the question arises: from what alchemy is such courage forged?

In the difficult passages of life, those who can recognize Bhagwan's footprints, those who remember the journey carried upon Bhagwan's shoulders — they are the ones who can make music even in the lifeboat.

The Pilot Is My Father

A plane once got caught in terrible weather and began to shake violently. All the passengers were gripped with fear. But one little boy of eight or ten sat peacefully, nibbling the chocolate the air hostess had given him, completely unconcerned. A fellow passenger asked: "Aren't you afraid?"

The boy answered with clear, ringing confidence: "Why should I be afraid? The pilot flying this plane is my father. I trust his skill. No matter what storm comes, he will bring us safely through."

Could we ever give such an answer about the Pilot of our life's aircraft — the One who steers the universe itself?

The Warrior's Wife

There was a fearsome warrior whose swordsmanship was legendary throughout the enemy ranks. Once, he placed his razor-sharp blade against a woman's throat. But the woman showed no fear at all — she simply kept smiling. When he asked why, she said: "Just as that gleaming sword is yours, so am I — your wife. I am absolutely certain you would not let even a scratch come to me."

When one truly knows one's relationship with the One who holds all power, what is there to fear from the world's troubles and circumstances?

Four Things You Need in the Storm

What do we need to survive the tempest — the storms at sea, the turbulent times? Consider these four:

1. Compass. A sense of true direction is the first necessity. Above all else, our inner perspective must not become corrupted. The question is: does our inner compass always point to true north?

2. Composure. Patience is the second need. Haste, confusion, and mental imbalance only multiply our difficulties. You may lose your composure for a moment — but if your guide, your rescuer, your rescue team loses theirs, how can that possibly work?

3. Continued Faith. An unshakeable Shraddha (faith) in Ishwar. He is capable, He is your own kin, and He is ever near. If there is one hundred and one percent trust in every move of the Supreme Father, the one who governs all creations, then even the fiercest storms will eventually subside. "You are the one who sends the calamity, and You are the one who grants the vision, the wisdom, the direction, and the strength to come through it." This faith must remain constant. To cross through storms, we need such unwavering Shraddha.

4. Constructive Energy. Abundant physical strength, powerful resolve, unshakeable inner fortitude — without these, it becomes impossible to keep going, to "sail on, sail on." Even after you find a lifeboat or a plank to cling to, the work of holding on, of swimming, of rowing without tiring — that you must do yourself. Human effort first, then divine grace. The Prasad of Prabhu comes only after the fullest measure of effort.

God helps those who help themselves.

The Prayer

With the alchemy of these four elements — Compass, Composure, Continued Faith, and Constructive Energy — may our life's vessel reach the safe shore. And may we keep singing, keep making the sweet sound of birdsong, even in the lifeboat.

May doubt depart from our lives and Sharanagati (surrender) take its place. May our Sankalpas be made with understanding. May our love for others bear fruit in Seva. May the spirit of Sakhabhava (divine friendship) with Bhagwan be preserved. And may our lives become as simple and God-surrendered as Arjuna's — that is the prayer of this Adhik Maas.

A Reflection for Today

The story's four provisions for surviving the storm — Compass, Composure, Continued Faith, Constructive Energy — read less like ancient wisdom and more like a manual written for this very decade. We have lived through a pandemic that shook every certainty. We live now amid wars we watch in real time on our phones, economic anxieties that arrive as push notifications, and a pervasive sense that the ground beneath our feet is always shifting. The modern instinct is to doomscroll, to complain, to share our suffering as content. The poet's image cuts against all of this: the world does not remember those who sang songs of sorrow at every festival, but those who sat upon a burning pyre and still played the veena.

The story of the boy on the turbulent airplane is deceptively simple, yet it asks the most demanding question a person can face: do you trust the Pilot of your life with the same calm certainty that child had in his father? Not the brittle confidence of someone who has never known hardship, but the tested, tempered Shraddha of someone who has been through the storm and found the hand that carried them. Our phones remember every crisis, every headline, every failure. But do we remember the moments when we were carried — when, looking back, we can see clearly that the path through was not of our own making? That remembering is itself a form of Sadhana.

Today’s Mantra for Japa

Om Namo Bhagavate Vasudevaya

Recite 11 times

For Family Discussion

  • 1When life is difficult, do you tend toward complaint or composure? Why?
  • 2Who in your life handles difficulty with grace? What can you learn from them?

Something to Sit With This Evening

In hard times, the noise you make is a choice. Choose the birdsong.

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From Adhik Mas Nu Nitya Chintan by Hitendra Gandhi & Jyotsna Shah. About the authors